Last night I went out with some friends from work on a road rally. It was my third one I've done. It started out really well, but then it had a couple problems that were just nearly impossible, and suddenly it wasn't so fun :( But, after it was over a group of us headed over to Mt. Clemens to go to subzero. That was a lot of fun. They have terrific martini's and last night they had a great band.
Brian and I have been speaking for a few days now, for the sake of the kids, as he put it. In all honesty I think that is going to make it harder at mediation. He's being nice and I'm not sure if he's going to still feel that way after Tuesday. I really hope he considers that he is the reason for the divorce and he doesn't feel he should be sticking me with all the debt and all. Equitable division of assets is what I am looking for. I want to walk away with what is fair and going to keep me and the girls going. I won't have it as easy as him to just go into bankruptcy and start living in an apartment. Half of everything would be fair and equitable.
Aside from the nastiness of having to divide up the little bit we have, we've been getting along well for the most part. Of course, hurt is still in the way, but he has been my best friend for so long that it's hard to not talk so much.
All I can do is just keep praying and convincing myself to feel ok with how my life is going when I really don't have that much control of it right now.
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1 comment:
Don't let him fool you with speaking to you. He may be down because he has no girlfriend anymore, but, it's still also a head game. He thinks he will break you down and you will agree to whatever he wants at mediation. He has already proven he is very sneaky, don't let him weasel his way back into your life just because he has no one else to fuck around with right now. I knew he would start to talk to you as soon as his little relationship made in heaven was over. He has to learn that he has to pay for his actions. Remember, he has not changed inside. No one can change that dramatically in a few months.
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